Back to School Organizing
Ahhhh…is there anything more satisfying than opening up a brand new box of crayons?
Yes, of course there is, silly 😉 But I'll admit, I looooves me some new crayons.
A fresh box of crayons can be symbolic of a fresh start to the new school year. Every Fall, we have the opportunity to sharpen our routines and get organized, so we can be as productive as possible.
Last week, we discussed preparing kids for the school year by showing them the calendar, talking with them about the transition, and prioritizing tasks for the remainder of the summer. If you missed last week's post, you can read it here. Don't forget to leave a comment and tell us how it went!
We're continuing the back-to-school organization series this week by tackling physical clutter. Most of us want to start off the school year feeling relaxed and focused. But according to Kim John Payne, author of Simplicity Parenting, environmental clutter can lead to overwhelm and distraction for us and for our kids.
The act of organizing itself can feel overwhelming, so set a timer and do a little each day. Ready? Let's go!
Before you step foot in a store to buy new school clothes or shoes, make an assessment of what you already have and get rid of what you don't need or use.
The clothes in your child's closet should fit and be appropriate for the season. Clothes that are too small or too large can be donated or stored, and clothes that are out-of-season can also be stored in labeled boxes. I prefer clear plastic bins, so I can actually see what's inside.
“When the only clothes available are the ones that fit your child, and the current weather, the closet is no longer a jungle to be hacked through. Even a three-year-old will begin to recognize the pattern of drawers, and be able to get a shirt or sweater themselves.” -Kim John Payne
Having fewer choices makes getting dressed a lot easier for kids. It's ok if they wear the same outfits week after week. No one's keeping track (except you). You can keep clothes for special occasions in a separate section of the closet, but school is messy, so buy clothes accordingly.
Keep like items together. When kids learn that their socks go in the top drawer and their pajamas go in the bottom, for example, they know where to find things and where to put them away. I even go so far as to separate long-sleeved and short-sleeved shirts, so there's no limit to how you can group things.
To take your clothes organizing to the next level, I recommend buying a hanging closet organizer. You can find them in stores like Target and Bed Bath and Beyond, or you can buy this one that has the days of the week printed on it.
Even though my kids wear uniforms to school, they wear P.E. clothes twice a week and special clothes on certain days, so they still lay out their clothes ahead of time. (Pssst! You can even use this system to organize your own clothes and accessories!)
Backpacks & Shoes
We have this area right inside our door where we
dump place our bags and shoes when we get home.
All you need are some hooks and a shoe rack, nothing fancy. I bought everything at Target.
You'll find that when everything has a home, staying organized is pretty simple. Kids understand this concept, too, and can be expected to clean up and put things away, just as they do at school.
Here's where things can really start to get out of control. Even though more and more schools are using computers for homework and to communicate with parents, there's still quite a bit of paper that comes into the house every day.
Paper can be sorted into three categories – those requiring some sort of action, those to be thrown away, and those to be kept for later reference. As part of your child's daily routine, he can go through his backpack and put action papers (forms for you to sign, reminders, etc.) in a designated spot (e.g. a hanging clipboard, bulletin board or basket).
Then, he can toss unwanted papers and put the ones he'd like to save in a labeled file folder or box (e.g. “Johnny – 1st grade”). At regular intervals — or at the end of the year — go through these papers again and keep only the really important or special ones.
Another tip: Take pictures of projects or papers you want to remember and make an end-of-the-year book using a site like Shutterfly.
Now, if you really want these habits to stick with your kids, you're going to have to practice what you preach. If your child sees you toss your mail on the counter, it's likely she's going to do the same with her papers. As a role model, you need to get in the habit of opening the mail, tossing the junk right away, and filing the rest. You can do it!!!
- Clear bins for clothes that don’t fit or are out-of-season
- Hooks for backpacks/bags/keys
- Shoe rack or cubby
- Hanging closet organizers
- Place for action papers (hanging clipboard, bulletin board, or basket)
- File folders or bins for saving important papers
Over the next two weeks, we'll cover routines: morning, after school, bedtime, and mealtime. Make sure you're subscribed to the blog and get notified when new posts come out.
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